Your clients are trusting you to help them with some very important decisions.
It goes without saying that your clients are the backbone of your business. They could also be a continuing source of praise and referrals for years to come, if you treat them properly.
When I say “if you treat them properly”, the measure of that isn’t how well you think they were treated. If your client doesn’t feel like they were treated well, then they weren’t. It’s that simple.
When you meet a client for the first time there is a natural gap between the both of you. That gap is your lack of understanding of their needs and feelings.
The bridge to get you closer to your client is built with communication.
Below are some key aspects of communication that, if done properly, can help ensure you and your client will both benefit from your interactions.
⍟ Be a Careful Listener
Sometimes the best way to listen is to allow a little pause after a client is done speaking. You don’t always need to respond. A space of silence can encourage your client to offer more of what they are thinking and feeling.
This will give you the best insight into what your client is thinking or what objections they may have.
Note: If you’re just nodding while thinking about what you’re going to say next, you aren’t listening.
" Most people do not listen with the intent to understand, they listen with the intent to reply. " - Stephen R. Covey
⍟ Be Ready to Ask the Right Questions at the Right Time
Powerful questions are your key to understanding the thoughts and emotion your clients are experiencing. The goal is to understand their fears, goals and desires.
The Powerful questios are those that allow you to understand the motivation behind your clients decisions.
These questions will vary depending on your business and your relationship with the client or prospective client.
⍟ Be Empathetic
Empathy is the ability to understand, be aware of and vicariously experience the feelings, thoughts and experience of another.
In order to put empathy into practice you will need to be able to resonate with another persons experiences. You will need to put yourself into a place where you can feel what they’re feeling (to some extent) and understand their situation from their point of view.
This is more than just a simple understanding of what they are going through and a pat on the back. If you can imagine yourself in the circumstance of a client, you should be able to appreciate what they are going through enough to reach a measure of the feeling they are experiencing.
If a client is becoming emotional about anything while you are trying to assess their needs and move them forward, just pause and give them space. Give them time to express themselves, and just listen.
At some point, the fact that you just listened for a time, while they vented, can be enough to get them back around to the issue at hand.
When a client shows a willingness to start discussing business, you have the green light to proceed.
If a client is overly emotional or using an excessive amount of your time in the process, It might be a good time to ask if they would like to re-schedule with you.
" Selling is not something you do to someone, it’s something you do for someone. " - Zig Ziglar
⍟ Be Honest & Transparent
This should be a given, and I almost didn’t include it since it should be so obvious.
Nevertheless, we continue to hear people complain about dishonest sales tactics, or outright lies. People today are skeptical by default. Get caught in a lie or hide information for your own benefit and it will come back to you.
Let’s be clear. Pretending you know something in order to avoid admitting you don’t is a lie. Leaving out important information that your client should know just to get a signature, with the intent to tell them later, or not at all, is dishonest.
In today’s environment, being honest and transparent is seen as a breath of fresh air. There is no reason to be dishonest.
No one is expecting you to be perfect. They will, however, reward you for being honest and acting with integrity.
⍟ Be Clear & Build Rapport
- Seth Godin
⍟ Be Consistent With Your Follow Up
Remember, It is now allowable for an agent to contact someone via email without an SOA, as long as you have an opt-out function. For more see our article on Medicare Communications & Marketing Guidelines.
Don’t forget to ask for referrals! Especially since it is now allowed by the Medicare Communications and Marketing Guidelines, on a one on one appointment.
⍟ The Final Say
There are many techniques and schools of thought on communication. This is one them.
I think it covers some of the important bits. Through experience and practice you will find your own groove. Keep what works but don’t stop learning and trying new things.
We are always learning more about the human mind and how it works. That will inform how people are influenced, and therefore, how you can best reach them.
And, of course, the rules and regulations will continue to evolve.
You must be aware of those regulations if you want to have the opportunity to keep communicating with prospective clients.
If you have any questions, as always, our experienced marketers are here to help.
Happy selling.
" The difference between try and triumph is just a little umph. " - Marvin Phillips
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